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How To Get a Man To Fall In Love With You

How many of us have met a great guy and felt the first stirrings of love only to discover he wasn't all that interested? Unfortunately it happens more often than most of us care to admit.

We play it cool and pretend as though he really didn't mean all that much to us, yet inside we are longing for a long term relationship with him. If you've ever been in these shoes and wondered how to get a man to fall in love with you, you're not alone.

Although you can't instantly make him fall to his knees and profess his undying devotion to you, there are a few things you can do that will make you more appealing to him and make him feel compelled to spend time with you.

One of the worst pieces of dating advice for single gals suggests that in the beginning of your blossoming relationship you should be unavailable so he'll want you more.

This advice needs a little tweaking in order for it to be truly effective. Men can't fall in love with you if you aren't around. You need to accept all his dinner, dancing, hanging out invitations without fail. You also need to initiate some time together.

If you want to get a man to fall in love with you, you need to be there with him. Let him see how great you are, how irresistible you are and how well you two interact.

Once you can sense that he's getting attached, this is when you start pulling back a bit. Subtly, not overtly you start to have other plans when he wants to go out. You don't always return his calls immediately and you start to seem a bit aloof. If you do this, he'll want you even more. Try it, it works.

Another approach to take if you want to get a man to fall in love with you is to let him be the one making the extra effort to impress you. One mistake that so many single women make when they are falling for a man is to cater to his every need.

They cook him dinner, they clean his apartment and they buy him small, surprise gifts for no reason. If you do this, you are sending out a signal that you need him in your life.

You are also showing that you'll go to no end to impress him. Most men will appreciate the effort but it won't have any bearing on how they feel about you. It's much better sit back and let him be the gallant and charming one. Women who don't go out of their way to please a man early in the relationship are much more appealing than those that do.

You always want to be upbeat and positive around a man you are really attracted to. Some women become so comfortable with a man that they start to share every small detail of their lives including complaints about work, or issues with friends. Keep a smile on your face as much as you can if you want to get a man to fall in love with you. You want him to always have the impression that you enjoy life and that you love being with him.

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